I love my life. I have three beautiful, polite children that love me. How blessed can one girl get? My sweet boy, Will is 11-1/2 and he is getting so big. He is starting to make wise decisions, and that is a comfort in itself. I was sooo afraid that I wasn't doing my job, because I have to stay on him constantly. "Will, put your shoes in the basket, Will, did you feed the dogs?, Will, brush your teeth, Will, courteousy flush! - seriously, I say his name at least 25 times a day.
Ms. Landon is such a teenager. She is all into fashion and looking her best. From her hair, her clothes, her teeth, her shoes, her accessories, everything is perfect. I can't believe that she's mine! She adores the Jonas Brothers and Jon and Kate Plus 8. It drives me crazy, because she talks about both of them all the time. Bug I'm very proud of her academically and I know that it will take her very far, if that's what she wants and if that's what God has in store for her.
My Little Bear, Ryan, is so polite and constantly moving. He is a lover and is always giving compliments (he tells me that I'm beautiful), but on the other hand, he is demanding and can be sneaky. He doesn't forget anything and he can be aggressive...kinda like his mama.
I'm sitting in my little house listening to the rain, proud that I have the kids in bed and making a list of things that I would like to change, accomplish, and things that I would like to learn. I've made a commitment to begin to really pray for my family but also my friends. I want to be a prayer warrior. If I can't help folks with my advice, money or phone calls, I can at least pray for them.
So many of my friends are going through things. I have a friend that is a 38 year old, high school English teacher that has Huntington's disease. Another friend has a daughter that has cancer. Several friends have sick parents or have just lost their parent. Some of my family and friends are having difficulties with their businesses or having a job at all.
I'm so thankful for God's Grace and I smell new beginnings in the air. I'm actually excited. I wonder who my Lord is preparing me for and I can't wait to meet him!!!! My prayer is that he loves the Lord more than anything else, that he is brave, that he loves my children, that he is honest and loves to be loved. I can't wait! My children are fabulous and I pray for a Godly man to help me raise them. He'll need a lot of wisdom! God is so good and life is wonderful.
Monday, January 05, 2009
Sunday, December 14, 2008
My weekend - Blah!
This weekend was the first weekend that all three of my children were gone. I dreaded this weekend so bad. I also secretly hoped that something would happen and that they wouldn't have to go. No such luck!
Thankfully I had plans for the weekend. My sister and I went to Superior Grill and then to see Four Christmases. The food was delicious as usual, but the movie was a BIG disappointment. The best part of it was the first part and the last 15 minutes. Vince and Reece don't have the chemistry to work together. Also in every other seen, Reece's hair looked different. That was very annoying.
I had plans to go to my company Christmas party and then over to a co-worker's house for some more festivties, but I couldn't bring myself to go by myself. It's one of those divorce stigmas that I'm still working on. I stayed in bed most of the day on Saturday and even on Sunday. I skipped church - and I always look forward to church. But that would mean that I didn't have to walk anyone to the nursery or anyone to get to Sunday School besides me.
I'm pathetic, I know. I feel like I can't operate without my children. They are definitely a crutch and I'm not sure HOW to have fun without them. A movie and dinner with my sis was fabulous, but I can't tie her up all weekend and every time the kids are gone. She has her family and a hubby that really likes to do things together. He was sad that she went to the movies without him! So, my weekend started off great, but I let the loneliness and the single thing paralyze me the rest of the weekend.
At least Landon got one of her presents early. She got her beloved green iPod Nano that she's been asking for. Daddy really came through this year. Whewww...that's one less thing off the list for me to purchase! I'm really looking forward to Christmas this year. I asked Santa for a boyfriend! Maybe he'll come through for me!
Thankfully I had plans for the weekend. My sister and I went to Superior Grill and then to see Four Christmases. The food was delicious as usual, but the movie was a BIG disappointment. The best part of it was the first part and the last 15 minutes. Vince and Reece don't have the chemistry to work together. Also in every other seen, Reece's hair looked different. That was very annoying.
I had plans to go to my company Christmas party and then over to a co-worker's house for some more festivties, but I couldn't bring myself to go by myself. It's one of those divorce stigmas that I'm still working on. I stayed in bed most of the day on Saturday and even on Sunday. I skipped church - and I always look forward to church. But that would mean that I didn't have to walk anyone to the nursery or anyone to get to Sunday School besides me.
I'm pathetic, I know. I feel like I can't operate without my children. They are definitely a crutch and I'm not sure HOW to have fun without them. A movie and dinner with my sis was fabulous, but I can't tie her up all weekend and every time the kids are gone. She has her family and a hubby that really likes to do things together. He was sad that she went to the movies without him! So, my weekend started off great, but I let the loneliness and the single thing paralyze me the rest of the weekend.
At least Landon got one of her presents early. She got her beloved green iPod Nano that she's been asking for. Daddy really came through this year. Whewww...that's one less thing off the list for me to purchase! I'm really looking forward to Christmas this year. I asked Santa for a boyfriend! Maybe he'll come through for me!
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
This past week and weekend flew by because we were so busy. On Tuesday, we went to Ryan's brother's flag football game. We cheered him on as he played both defense and offense. At one point he almost scored. Those little legs of his carried him so fast. I was sure he was going to make a touchdown.
Church on Wednesday was terrific. I'm participating in a parenting class led by Dr. Ted Tripp. It is a biblically-based study on how to parent understanding that we react out of our heart. It helps you to focus on pointing the child to God for their heart problems instead of manipulating them to behave.
On Thursday we headed to the Zoo that was having a Wildgame Cook-off sponsored by Alabama Wildlife Federation. I tried quail, duck won tons, frog legs, venison gumbo and wild turkey bbq. It was all so good. These cooking teams really knew how to prepare the animals so they didn't have that gamey taste. This was a wonderland for Will. The kids were able to ride the carousel and pet the animals. There was a llama that was giving a little girl a kiss on the cheek.
On Friday, we rented a movie Speed Racer. What a terrible movie. I thought it would be for kids, but there were more than 5 curse words and it was poorly done. The cartoon stunk and so did the movie. While they were watching that, I was catching up on laundry and preparing for Ryan to go to his dad's for the day.
At 5:00AM, Ryan headed off with his dad and brother to go dove hunting and fishing. Ryan was excited to tell Will about the catfish he caught. And he was filthy when he got home. I had him to undress on the frontporch and head straight to the tub. Boys will be boys!
After he got home, bathed and dressed, we headed off for Atlanta for our weekend. We got to our hotel at 3:30 and checked in.
Church on Wednesday was terrific. I'm participating in a parenting class led by Dr. Ted Tripp. It is a biblically-based study on how to parent understanding that we react out of our heart. It helps you to focus on pointing the child to God for their heart problems instead of manipulating them to behave.
On Thursday we headed to the Zoo that was having a Wildgame Cook-off sponsored by Alabama Wildlife Federation. I tried quail, duck won tons, frog legs, venison gumbo and wild turkey bbq. It was all so good. These cooking teams really knew how to prepare the animals so they didn't have that gamey taste. This was a wonderland for Will. The kids were able to ride the carousel and pet the animals. There was a llama that was giving a little girl a kiss on the cheek.
On Friday, we rented a movie Speed Racer. What a terrible movie. I thought it would be for kids, but there were more than 5 curse words and it was poorly done. The cartoon stunk and so did the movie. While they were watching that, I was catching up on laundry and preparing for Ryan to go to his dad's for the day.
At 5:00AM, Ryan headed off with his dad and brother to go dove hunting and fishing. Ryan was excited to tell Will about the catfish he caught. And he was filthy when he got home. I had him to undress on the frontporch and head straight to the tub. Boys will be boys!
After he got home, bathed and dressed, we headed off for Atlanta for our weekend. We got to our hotel at 3:30 and checked in.
Monday, September 08, 2008
Our Summer
I've not written in a while. I hate it when I get so behind. Summer flew by in a wink. We had a great summer though.
We took our annual beach trip for the 4th of July week. My whole family went. My mom, stepdad, dad, stepmom, sister, brother-in-law, brother, sister-in-law and 12 children! My nephews have really improved on their swimming and most of them didn't need any swimmies. My oldest son and oldest nephew really got their skin boarding down pat. Little Ryan had a blast swimming in the ocean and pool. Playing in the sand with the dumptruck that my dad got him was a big hit.
Landon and Will also went to camp with our church for a week. They came back talking a hundred miles a minute and they grew up in that short time. Will went fishing, tubing, and shot rifles. Landon did the zip-line, tubing, and played volleyball. Of course they did their share of swimming. And they both dressed up for skit night - Hawaiian night.
Also, Landon and Will got baptized this summer. It was such a blessing to realize that my children came to the point in their life that they trusted Jesus as their Savior. And they wanted to let others know of their decision by being obedient and being baptized. Most of the family attended this blessed occasion.
So, that's how my summer went.
Blessings!
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
An interesting start to summer
Summer's here and I've not been the blogger that I committed to in late April. I've been playing catch up with my life ever since I injured my neck. I'm so thankful to be back to normal!
Landon and Will finished school with terrific grades. Will will be in the 6th grade beginning in August, and Landon in the 7th. Landon was invited to an Academic luncheon for the Top 25 students with a 95% grade average or above in the middle of May. We had lunch, honored the students and heard a speech from the new 7th Grade principal for next year. I was so touched by his speech. He spoke about Christ and his walk and even commented on a few bible verses that were his favorite. That is rare that a teacher or administrator would step up and speak about God.
Also, before school let out, Landon had campaigned for the Secretary position of the Student Government against her best friend and a few other students. She finally got the news a few days before school's dismissal for the summer, that she was voted Secretary!!!! We celebrated!
Ryan graduated from the 3-K class. Graduation was so much fun to watch. They sang songs, quoted scripture and received diplomas. Afterwards, we went to one of his buddy's house and had a swim party and cook-out. I can't believe that my little Ryan will be in 4-K in August. He's really enjoying the summer. He gets to go to the library on Wednesday's and swimming on Friday's.
We also learned that his father would be getting married in June and that he would now have a stepmother and 2 step-sisters. He was very upset to learn that his dad would be leaving his apartment and moving 20+ minutes away. He was worried about his toys not going with him and that he wouldn't be so close.
So, we've had an interesting start to the summer. Landon and Will are with their father for the first two-week interval and I MISS THEM. But exciting enough, they will be getting baptized on the night they return (this Sunday). I bought them bibles as gifts to give them, to honor their obedience and commitment to Christ.
Work is busy as usual and I'm looking forward to the beach.
Enough catch-up for now.
Blessings,
Landon and Will finished school with terrific grades. Will will be in the 6th grade beginning in August, and Landon in the 7th. Landon was invited to an Academic luncheon for the Top 25 students with a 95% grade average or above in the middle of May. We had lunch, honored the students and heard a speech from the new 7th Grade principal for next year. I was so touched by his speech. He spoke about Christ and his walk and even commented on a few bible verses that were his favorite. That is rare that a teacher or administrator would step up and speak about God.
Also, before school let out, Landon had campaigned for the Secretary position of the Student Government against her best friend and a few other students. She finally got the news a few days before school's dismissal for the summer, that she was voted Secretary!!!! We celebrated!
Ryan graduated from the 3-K class. Graduation was so much fun to watch. They sang songs, quoted scripture and received diplomas. Afterwards, we went to one of his buddy's house and had a swim party and cook-out. I can't believe that my little Ryan will be in 4-K in August. He's really enjoying the summer. He gets to go to the library on Wednesday's and swimming on Friday's.
We also learned that his father would be getting married in June and that he would now have a stepmother and 2 step-sisters. He was very upset to learn that his dad would be leaving his apartment and moving 20+ minutes away. He was worried about his toys not going with him and that he wouldn't be so close.
So, we've had an interesting start to the summer. Landon and Will are with their father for the first two-week interval and I MISS THEM. But exciting enough, they will be getting baptized on the night they return (this Sunday). I bought them bibles as gifts to give them, to honor their obedience and commitment to Christ.
Work is busy as usual and I'm looking forward to the beach.
Enough catch-up for now.
Blessings,
Monday, May 05, 2008
Negative
Hey! I got my results back from the MRI. NEGATIVE. No fractures or anything else that would be bad...I would rather not type them. Isn't that wonderful. I'm so thankful to my merciful God that He answered my prayers. I was a little concerned and I was pleasantly surprised when I received the news. You never know when your life is goinng to change and I was truly grateful that it wasn't going to be today with my health!!!! =)
So, I can finally go back to work tomorrow. I'm a little behind because of all the new projects going on. So, I'll be playing catch up for a while. The ladies at work have been incredible. They handled my guys and theirs too. I have been so blessed with a tremendous group of women to work with and they are truly amazing mentors to top it off. They pray for me and they advise me on things that life throws at me.
Well, we had a t-ball game tonight. We played the Yankees and we didn't win, but my little Ryan received the game ball. He wouldn't put it down while we walked to the Jeep, while I buckled him in the carseat, while we ordered to-go food, and while we were eating dinner. I finally had to confiscate it while we were getting ready for bed. He hit the ball down the third base line. His dad and I were so proud. Ryan's other brother and sister (Maggie and Josh) came to his game too. They were a little preoccupied playing with Landon and Will, but they were there, thanks to their mama.
My granny is going to have surgery on her eyes on Thursday to remove film that has grown over her eyes. Please remember my gran in your prayers. And on the same day, I'll be starting Physical Therapy. I'm not sure what to expect, but I guess we'll see.
School is coming quickly to an end. I've got to make some more plans for the kiddos. Will is so interested in rodeoes. Riding steers and roping calves. I am going to look into a camp or training for him that his friend attends. He is already talking about the rodeo in October. That's my Wilbur. Speaking of Will, he is going to be 11 next Tuesday. I've not planned the first thing, because of Mother's Day and all the bridal teas that I've got to attend in the next three weeks. I've got to start on that tomorrow.
Last thing, church on Sunday was wonderful. I visited my sister's church that I barely made to, because of a darn train that stopped on the tracks. But I made it anyway. Wonderful message!
Have a good work week.
In God's Love,
So, I can finally go back to work tomorrow. I'm a little behind because of all the new projects going on. So, I'll be playing catch up for a while. The ladies at work have been incredible. They handled my guys and theirs too. I have been so blessed with a tremendous group of women to work with and they are truly amazing mentors to top it off. They pray for me and they advise me on things that life throws at me.
Well, we had a t-ball game tonight. We played the Yankees and we didn't win, but my little Ryan received the game ball. He wouldn't put it down while we walked to the Jeep, while I buckled him in the carseat, while we ordered to-go food, and while we were eating dinner. I finally had to confiscate it while we were getting ready for bed. He hit the ball down the third base line. His dad and I were so proud. Ryan's other brother and sister (Maggie and Josh) came to his game too. They were a little preoccupied playing with Landon and Will, but they were there, thanks to their mama.
My granny is going to have surgery on her eyes on Thursday to remove film that has grown over her eyes. Please remember my gran in your prayers. And on the same day, I'll be starting Physical Therapy. I'm not sure what to expect, but I guess we'll see.
School is coming quickly to an end. I've got to make some more plans for the kiddos. Will is so interested in rodeoes. Riding steers and roping calves. I am going to look into a camp or training for him that his friend attends. He is already talking about the rodeo in October. That's my Wilbur. Speaking of Will, he is going to be 11 next Tuesday. I've not planned the first thing, because of Mother's Day and all the bridal teas that I've got to attend in the next three weeks. I've got to start on that tomorrow.
Last thing, church on Sunday was wonderful. I visited my sister's church that I barely made to, because of a darn train that stopped on the tracks. But I made it anyway. Wonderful message!
Have a good work week.
In God's Love,
Thursday, May 01, 2008
We lost
Tonight little Ryan's team didn't win, but they gave it a good try. The score was 16 to 18. Little Bear gets very bored in the outfield and I had to encourage him to stop lying in the grass over and over again! But when it comes to hitting the ball, that's another story. He can nail it and his little legs carry him so quickly to each base. He's the youngest one out there, and the other players have a hard time catching him! For his first season and being the youngest out there, I'm impressed and a little prejudice. =)
Landon has been invited to a luncheon at school for high academic achievement on May 7. And she was able to invite two guests. She asked me and her dad to attend. Brad wasn't able to commit, but she and I will be attending and I'm so excited and proud. She's always made excellent grades, but this year has been different, because she was able to challenge herself by choosing to take Advanced Math and have a full load of extracurricular activities. She's in Student Government and on the Annual/Newsletter Staff and she's able to work in the office one day a week. So she has to juggle lots of responsibility with schoolwork and organizations. I seriously couldn't be anymore proud of her than I am, if so, I would burst!! =) I've always said, if there was anyone in the world that I could be like, I'd choose Landon.
I would pick her, because of her heart, her poise, her dedication, her integrity. When I grow up, I want to be my daughter! She loves Christ, and her family and she's so aware. Anyway, if you can't tell and if you don't know her, she's pretty great.
Her plans for the summer are to attend a Christian camp and she's so excited. We are hoping to take a trip to Atlanta for a few days to visit the Aquarium, the Braves, Coca-Cola, the zoo and maybe White Water/Six Flags. We've not ever explored Atlanta other than Six Flags and according to March's Southern Living, it's a really diverse place with tons to do.
Wilbur is playing soccer and he's awesome. He scored two goals during his last game and got the breath knocked out of him. He didn't like that feeling at all. It really scared him, because that's never happened to him before. Will has never been to the church camp, so he's very excited about going.
This week has been tough with having a lot of pain, and I finally got the MRI today. I will know the results in one or two days - so hopefully by Monday, I'll know more of why I'm experiencing this pain. And maybe I'll finally get some good rest, because for the last two nights, I've had a total of 5 1/2 hours sleep. But I did get some reading done, and a lot of praying and praising God for my three treasures!!!
Have a wonderful start to the weekend.
In God's Hands,
Landon has been invited to a luncheon at school for high academic achievement on May 7. And she was able to invite two guests. She asked me and her dad to attend. Brad wasn't able to commit, but she and I will be attending and I'm so excited and proud. She's always made excellent grades, but this year has been different, because she was able to challenge herself by choosing to take Advanced Math and have a full load of extracurricular activities. She's in Student Government and on the Annual/Newsletter Staff and she's able to work in the office one day a week. So she has to juggle lots of responsibility with schoolwork and organizations. I seriously couldn't be anymore proud of her than I am, if so, I would burst!! =) I've always said, if there was anyone in the world that I could be like, I'd choose Landon.
I would pick her, because of her heart, her poise, her dedication, her integrity. When I grow up, I want to be my daughter! She loves Christ, and her family and she's so aware. Anyway, if you can't tell and if you don't know her, she's pretty great.
Her plans for the summer are to attend a Christian camp and she's so excited. We are hoping to take a trip to Atlanta for a few days to visit the Aquarium, the Braves, Coca-Cola, the zoo and maybe White Water/Six Flags. We've not ever explored Atlanta other than Six Flags and according to March's Southern Living, it's a really diverse place with tons to do.
Wilbur is playing soccer and he's awesome. He scored two goals during his last game and got the breath knocked out of him. He didn't like that feeling at all. It really scared him, because that's never happened to him before. Will has never been to the church camp, so he's very excited about going.
This week has been tough with having a lot of pain, and I finally got the MRI today. I will know the results in one or two days - so hopefully by Monday, I'll know more of why I'm experiencing this pain. And maybe I'll finally get some good rest, because for the last two nights, I've had a total of 5 1/2 hours sleep. But I did get some reading done, and a lot of praying and praising God for my three treasures!!!
Have a wonderful start to the weekend.
In God's Hands,
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